If not for The Force, Darth Vader would have totally gotten his ass kicked, because that suit? Not very practical.

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

OK, so here’s the story with this bullshit:

A few weeks ago, Wonder Woman and I took the kids to the comic-book store. While there, Wonder Woman, who is on the school council at Zan’s elementary school, hit up the owner to help sponsor a school fundraiser by providing for the event one of the costumed characters that often appear at the store. The owner said he didn’t have anyone specific he could send, but he’d be willing to loan out the store’s $800 Darth Vader costume.

“Jon’s pretty tall,” Mr. Helpful Comic-Book Store Owner suggested. “He could wear it.”

Well, as we all know by now, no one loves to get himself into ridiculous shit more than me (see “coaching tee-ball”), so I, of course, said, “Yeah, I’ll do it.”

And so yesterday arrived, and suddenly it was time for me to actually dress up in the damn thing … and, alright, I’ll admit it: as a “Star Wars” geek from way back, part of me was kind of excited about putting on that sweet-ass costume … but a much, much bigger part of me was completely skeeved out, because the costume smelled like it just came off of a recently exhumed body that had been slow-poached in Fabreeze Febreeze Febreze bullion.

But, hey, I know how to take one for the team, so I strapped that bad boy on.

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Suiting up took almost a half hour, and that didn’t include the two-piece helmet, which I carried to the gig, as my priority was to avoid for as long as possible the stench wafting from its padded innards.

Once we arrived at the location, Wonder Woman provided me with the container of Vicks VapoRub that I’d requested, as I’d planned to employ the old homicide-squad trick of placing beneath each of my nostrils a dollop of mentholated goodness … which I did … but seeing as how I’m a big pussy whose skin is as sensitive as that of an allergy-ridden albino infant, the VapoRub quickly created a burning sensation, so instead of mentholated goodness, it was l’odeur des swamp-ass for me.

The fundraiser worked like this: a local restaurant blocked off a couple of hours during which a portion of its profits would be earmarked for the school (or something like that; I’m not a “details” guy; I’m a “dress up in an asstastically stinky costume” guy). The local restaurant originally was supposed to be a pizza joint, but the pizza-joint people apparently turned out to be pains in the asses, so a late-game switch was made to McDonald’s … because nothing says “we’re helping little kids” quite like pumping them full of frightfully awful, nutritionally bankrupt fast food, am I right?

So here’s the thing about showing up at a suburban-Boston-area McDonald’s at 5 p.m. on a Tuesday night in early November dressed in an authentic movie-replica Darth Vader costume: AWK-WARD.

For starters, hardly any families from the school were there when we arrived, so I was pretty much just hanging around with my wife and kids while the other patrons were all looking at me like “…the fuck?” In other words, I felt like a bit of a douche. Douche Vader, if you will. Mostly, I was just hoping that the teenagers behind the counter weren’t thinking up ways to fuck with me.

Fashion tip: an insulated, quilt-like, black-pleather bodysuit does not breathe quite as nicely as Egyptian cotton … and adding to your ensemble a heavy black cape, black snow boots, black leather gloves, black plastic-and-leather leg guards, a large black codpiece, several battery-operated light-up control-panel doohickeys, and a small steamer trunk disguised as a helmet does nothing to help matters.

It soon became clear that my only chance of survival was to station myself outside in the playground area.

Darth Vader: Sith Lord and Safety Officer

Eventually, quite a few families showed up … and, fortunately, the kids were all pretty stoked about meeting Darth Vader.

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Unfortunately, Darth Vader could hardly see any of them … because the sauna-like conditions inside the costume quickly resulted in the clear-plastic-covered eye holes fogging up completely.

So there I was, broiling to death inside a Darth Vader costume. A lesser man would have caved in, fled the scene, removed the mask and gulped down lungfuls of fresh, breathable air. But not me. No, if there’s one thing that enduring army basic training in Alabama in the middle of July and subsequently spending three years stationed in the Mojave Desert made me capable of withstanding, it’s being overdressed in extreme heat. Yes, that’s right: My extensive army training and military background sculpted me into the perfect candidate to wear a sadomasochistic science-fiction costume to McDonald’s. Happy Veterans Day, America! You’re welcome!

Finally, my two-hour ordeal came to a close … although I still kept the mask on for the entire drive home … both because one of the mothers begged me to make sure her child didn’t see me take it off for fear of scarring him for life, and because I figured I might as well get some decent pictures at home, indoors, where the lighting was much better.

Sadly, my staff photographer accidentally switched the camera from “Auto Focus” to “Manual Focus” without realizing she had done so, so instead of some epic shots of Daddy Vader and Zan Skywalker engaged in a deadly lightsaber battle, we have this blurry batch of shit:

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Also not to be missed is this blurry shot of Daddy Vader and daughter, who felt compelled to quickly throw on her Snow White costume.

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

This would have been a great one, too:

Daddy Vader, 11.10.09

Oh well, at least we can plan on getting some better shots the next time I dress up in the suit … which should happen roughly never.

When I finally stripped off the costume, Zan looked at my soaking-wet gray running shirt (which I wore along with a pair of spandex running pants, because there was no way in hell my flesh was going to touch the inside of that thing), he was all, “Whoah! I can’t believe how sweaty you are! Why did you do that, Daddy?”

“Why did I do what?”

“Dress up in that costume for two hours!”

“Why did I do it?” I replied, somewhat maniacally. “I did it for you! For your school! Pretty awesome, huh? Aren’t I a great guy? What a lucky boy you are to have a Daddy like me, eh? Now come here; I’m gonna hug you just like this!”

He wasn’t interested in hugging my sweaty, stench-covered ass … but I’m hopeful that, when he reads this someday, he’ll be appreciative of the crazy shit I did in order to be the cool dad.

UPDATE: Wonder Woman just told me that Zan did, in fact, thank me sincerely during that last exchange, but I apparently was too delirious from toxic Darth Vader-costume fumes to commit that moment to memory.

You’re welcome, son.

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  1. Posted November 12, 2009 at 7:29 am | Permalink

    –>I’m sorry but I couldn’t stop laughing at your description of wearing that nasty smelling costume. You definitely took one for the team and someday your kids will remember how cool it was of you to do. My husband would NEVER do that in a million years. I’m sort of glad because he would hold it over my head for ever.
    .-= WebSavyMom´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday – A Room With a View =-.

  2. Amber
    Posted November 12, 2009 at 8:48 am | Permalink

    My hubby is dressing up as santa for the 2nd year. He refuses to tell me how he gets the costume on, only saying that his best friend helps him, and he secrets can’t be told. I just love you devoted dads!

  3. Posted November 12, 2009 at 9:20 am | Permalink

    Ah-mazing. As stinky as I am sure it was, that is still a pretty bad-ass costume.
    .-= Casey´s last blog ..Coming Soon… I promise! =-.

  4. Gail K.
    Posted November 12, 2009 at 10:01 am | Permalink

    Tell the truth, as horrendous as the stench was, you were digging the codpiece effect, weren’t you?

  5. Posted November 12, 2009 at 10:09 am | Permalink

    I’m so glad I found your blog through a comment you made to The Bloggess. I know I’m a day late, but thank you for your prior service in the military. I’m sure when your kids get older, one of their favorite stories will be the time Dad dressed up as Darth Vader in the stinky suit.

  6. Sonia Swensen
    Posted November 12, 2009 at 10:24 am | Permalink

    It’s no wonder Vader needs that giant codpiece – did you see the size of his lightsaber? HAHAHAHAHA. “Asstastic”, I am loving that word.

  7. Posted November 12, 2009 at 10:47 am | Permalink

    Fire your staff photographer.

    Also: “Febreze bullion.” Hee!
    .-= E. Peevie´s last blog ..Celebrate! Win! Book Giveaway! =-.

  8. Posted November 12, 2009 at 11:18 am | Permalink

    This should go into the Daddy’s Greatest Hits section soon. I think you should have snapped shots of the other McDonald’s patrons before anyone else arrived. Or maybe Darth Vadar ordering some food. Hilarious.
    .-= Joe´s last blog ..Sitcom Stamp of Approval =-.

  9. Posted November 12, 2009 at 2:10 pm | Permalink

    OMG Im sorry but that was hilarious. The things we will do for our kids, eh?
    .-= Deborah´s last blog ..Black Friday Deals =-.

  10. Posted November 12, 2009 at 2:14 pm | Permalink

    “codpiece” – “asstastic” who comes up with that?!? Dad Vader, that’s who!

    As a product of a selfless, will-humiliate-myself-in-public-to-show-my-support-for-you kind of Dad, I can affirmatively say that your kids will grow up knowing they’ve got the best Dad in the universe!
    .-= Red Sun´s last blog ..White Bean and Corn Chowder =-.

  11. Posted November 12, 2009 at 2:51 pm | Permalink

    Oh my. I just snorfed an entire swallow of Diet Coke onto my keyboard. That was a particularly good post. Just be thankful you had a mask. All of us should be that lucky. The time I had to dress up as Dorothy for a fundraiser? You should have SEEN the nasty looks I got while clicking my heels three times…
    .-= Kate House´s last blog ..A Fruity Fairy Tale (Parenting Fail #48) =-.

  12. Dianne
    Posted November 12, 2009 at 4:17 pm | Permalink

    Too funny. But I think the comment about McDonald’s, though true, was a cheap shot. They helped your kid’s school raise money when the other place backed out, give ’em a little credit for that.

  13. Posted November 12, 2009 at 5:17 pm | Permalink

    You are one awesome Dad!
    .-= Wendy´s last blog ..Crunchy Edamame Salad =-.

  14. Posted November 12, 2009 at 6:51 pm | Permalink

    You are sooo brave and awesome! You’ve got to watch this, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sv5iEK-IEzw not for kids though, rated R for bad language.
    .-= Dcan´s last blog ..You Capture – Real Life =-.

  15. Posted November 12, 2009 at 9:30 pm | Permalink

    Wow, that is awesome! Well, not the asstastically stinky costume part, but way to take one for the team! Hilarious!!
    .-= nonsoccermom´s last blog ..Everything but the kitchen sink….oh. =-.

  16. Sara
    Posted November 14, 2009 at 11:56 am | Permalink

    when “… she quickly threw on her Snow White costume” Oh my god, I busted a gut laughing!!!!

    You are an incredibly talented writer.
    I look forward to reading about more adventures with the scratchy clan

  17. Frannie
    Posted November 15, 2009 at 4:35 pm | Permalink

    The thing that I love most about this post is Zan in the first picture. The way he’s holding onto your arm just screams ownership – as in “this is MY dad, isn’t he great!”

    Good stuff.

  18. Lynda
    Posted November 16, 2009 at 10:39 am | Permalink

    I am still laughing at your hilarious story. Make no mistake that your children will never forget how wonderful you were during their formative years. And it just keeps on getting better! Thankx for the Monday morning chuckles!

  19. Posted November 17, 2009 at 1:48 pm | Permalink

    At least you dressed up as something cool. My husband? Fat Elvis.

  20. Kat
    Posted November 18, 2009 at 12:03 pm | Permalink

    Haha, that is too funny! I wonder how many other people’s sweat is caked on the inside of that costume? YUCK!!

    What type of camera did you use to take the first bunch of photos in this post? They look great!

  21. Jocelyn
    Posted November 19, 2009 at 12:26 am | Permalink

    I think this is my favorite post yet. Your always-eloquent prose had me giggling from the start, but the photo of Darth standing forlornly in the McDonald’s playground sent me over the edge…to the dahhhk siiiide. Your blog is truly a “force” to be reckoned with. Heh heh. (Yes, I’ll be keeping my day job.)

  22. Posted May 21, 2010 at 11:01 pm | Permalink

    Uhm I am thinking the comic book store should hire you full time, and branch out to singing telegrams… also of note. When we had floaters or bloaters our sensitive skin guys would use toothpaste instead of Vics… Although honestly nothing would help in that suit. But it was a trick I taught my husband when he undertook poopy diaper duty… It helped him

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